Love (காமத்துப்பால்) / The Post-marital love
Chapter 120
தனிப்படர் மிகுதி
The Solitary Anguish
Thanippatarmikudhi. Malay: Kesedihan Bersendirian. Kurals 1191 to 1200.
When suffering alone.
How to say it
Thaamveezhvaar Thamveezhap Petravar PetraareKaamaththuk Kaazhil Kani
Meaning in plain English
The women who are beloved by those whom they love, have they have not got the stone-less fruit of sexual delight ?
Poetic translation
The bliss to be beloved by those they love who gains, Of love the stoneless, luscious fruit obtains
G. U. Pope, 1886
How to say it
Vaazhvaarkku Vaanam Payandhatraal VeezhvaarkkuVeezhvaar Ala� Kkum Ali
Meaning in plain English
The bestowal of love by the beloved on those who love them is like the rain raining (at the proper season) on those who live by it
Poetic translation
As heaven on living men showers blessings from above, Is tender grace by lovers shown to those they love
G. U. Pope, 1886
How to say it
Veezhunar Veezhap Patuvaarkku AmaiyumeVaazhunam Ennum Serukku
Meaning in plain English
The pride that says "we shall live" suits only those who are loved by their beloved (husbands)
Poetic translation
Who love and are beloved to them aloneBelongs the boast, 'We've made life's very joys our own.'
G. U. Pope, 1886
How to say it
Veezhap Patuvaar Kezheeiyilar ThaamveezhvaarVeezhap Pataaar Enin
Meaning in plain English
Even those who are esteemed (by other women) are devoid of excellence, if they are not loved by their beloved
Poetic translation
Those well-beloved will luckless prove, Unless beloved by those they love
G. U. Pope, 1886
How to say it
Naamkaadhal Kontaar Namakkevan SeypavoThaamkaadhal Kollaak Katai
Meaning in plain English
He who is beloved by me, what will he do to me, if I am not beloved by him ?
Poetic translation
From him I love to me what gain can be, Unless, as I love him, he loveth me
G. U. Pope, 1886
How to say it
Orudhalaiyaan Innaadhu Kaamamkaap PolaIrudhalai Yaanum Inidhu
Meaning in plain English
Lust, like the weight of the KAVADI, pains if it lies in one end only but pleases if it is in both
Poetic translation
Love on one side is bad; like balanced loadBy porter borne, love on both sides is good
G. U. Pope, 1886
How to say it
Paruvaralum Paidhalum Kaanaankol KaamanOruvarkan Nindrozhuku Vaan
Meaning in plain English
Would not cupid who abides and contends in one party (only) witness the pain and sorrow (in that party)?
Poetic translation
While Kaman rushes straight at me alone, Is all my pain and wasting grief unknown
G. U. Pope, 1886
How to say it
Veezhvaarin Insol Peraaadhu UlakaththuVaazhvaarin Vankanaar Il
Meaning in plain English
There is no one in the world so hard-hearted as those who can live without receiving (even) a kind word from their beloved
Poetic translation
Who hear from lover's lips no pleasant word from day to day, Yet in the world live out their life,- no braver souls than they
G. U. Pope, 1886
How to say it
Nasaiiyaar Nalkaar Eninum AvarmaattuIsaiyum Iniya Sevikku
Meaning in plain English
Though my beloved bestows no love on one, still are his words sweet to my ears
Poetic translation
Though he my heart desires no grace accords to me, Yet every accent of his voice is melody
G. U. Pope, 1886
How to say it
Uraaarkku Urunoi Uraippaai KatalaichCheraaaai Vaazhiya Nenju
Meaning in plain English
Live, O my soul, would you who relate your great sorrow to strangers, try rather to fill up your own sea (of sorrow)
Poetic translation
Tell him thy pain that loves not thee?Farewell, my soul, fill up the sea
G. U. Pope, 1886