திருக்குறள் Thirukkural of Thiruvalluvar

10 kurals for My friend betrayed my trust

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Kural 825

Chapter 83, Unreal Friendship

Matches: betrayed, friend, trust

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How to say it

Manaththin Amaiyaa Thavarai EnaiththondrumSollinaal Therarpaatru Andru

Meaning in plain English

In nothing whatever is it proper to rely on the words of those who do not love with their heart

Poetic translation

When minds are not in unison, 'its never; just, In any words men speak to put your trust

G. U. Pope, 1886

Your language

Kural 821

Chapter 83, Unreal Friendship

Matches: betrayed, friend, trust

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How to say it

Seeritam Kaanin Eridharkup PattataiNeraa Nirandhavar Natpu

Meaning in plain English

The friendship of those who behave like friends without inward affection is a weapon that may be thrown when a favourable opportunity presents itself

Poetic translation

Anvil where thou shalt smitten be, when men occasion find, Is friendship's form without consenting mind

G. U. Pope, 1886

Your language

Kural 791

Chapter 80, Investigation in forming Friendships

Matches: trust, friend

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How to say it

Naataadhu Nattalir Ketillai NattapinVeetillai Natpaal Pavarkku

Meaning in plain English

As those who are of a friendly nature will not forsake (a friend) after once loving (him), there is no evil so great as contracting a friendship without due inquiry

Poetic translation

To make an untried man your friend is ruin sure; For friendship formed unbroken must endure

G. U. Pope, 1886

Your language

Kural 797

Chapter 80, Investigation in forming Friendships

Matches: trust, friend

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How to say it

Oodhiyam Enpadhu Oruvarkup PedhaiyaarKenmai Oreei Vital

Meaning in plain English

It is indead a gain for one to renounce the friendship of fools

Poetic translation

'Tis gain to any man, the sages say, Friendship of fools to put away

G. U. Pope, 1886

Your language

Kural 817

Chapter 82, Evil Friendship

Matches: friend, trust, betrayed

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How to say it

Nakaivakaiya Raakiya Natpin PakaivaraalPaththatuththa Koti Urum

Meaning in plain English

What comes from enemies is a hundred million times more profitable than what comes from the friendship of those who cause only laughter

Poetic translation

From foes ten million fold a greater good you gain, Than friendship yields that's formed with laughers vain

G. U. Pope, 1886

Your language

Kural 882

Chapter 89, Enmity within

Matches: betrayed, friend, trust

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How to say it

Vaalpola Pakaivarai Anjarka AnjukaKelpol Pakaivar Thotarpu

Meaning in plain English

Fear not foes (who say they would cut) like a sword; (but) fear the friendship of foes (who seemingly

Poetic translation

Dread not the foes that as drawn swords appear; Friendship of foes, who seem like kinsmen, fear

G. U. Pope, 1886

Your language

Kural 643

Chapter 65, Power of Speech

Matches: friend, trust, betrayed

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How to say it

Kettaarp Pinikkum Thakaiyavaaik KelaarumVetpa Mozhivadhaam Sol

Meaning in plain English

The (minister's) speech is that which seeks (to express) elements as bind his friends (to himself) and is so delivered as to make even his enemies desire (his friendship)

Poetic translation

'Tis speech that spell-bound holds the listening ear, While those who have not heard desire to hear

G. U. Pope, 1886

Your language

Kural 510

Chapter 51, Selection and Confidence

Matches: trust, friend

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How to say it

Theraan Thelivum Thelindhaankan AiyuravumTheeraa Itumpai Tharum

Meaning in plain English

To make choice of one who has not been examined, and to entertain doubts respecting one who has been chosen, will produce irremediable sorrow

Poetic translation

Trust where you have not tried, doubt of a friend to feel, Once trusted, wounds inflict that nought can heal

G. U. Pope, 1886

Your language

Kural 790

Chapter 79, Friendship

Matches: friend, trust

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How to say it

Inaiyar Ivaremakku Innamyaam EndruPunaiyinum Pullennum Natpu

Meaning in plain English

Though friends may praise one another saying, "He is so intimate with us, and we so much (with him)"; (still) such friendship will appear mean

Poetic translation

Mean is the friendship that men blazon forth,'He's thus to me' and 'such to him my worth'

G. U. Pope, 1886

Your language

Kural 815

Chapter 82, Evil Friendship

Matches: friend, trust

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How to say it

Seydhemanj Chaaraach Chiriyavar PunkenmaiEydhalin Eydhaamai Nandru

Meaning in plain English

It is far better to avoid that to contract the evil friendship of the base who cannot protect (their friends) even when appointed to do so

Poetic translation

'Tis better not to gain than gain the friendship profitlessOf men of little minds, who succour fails when dangers press

G. U. Pope, 1886

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